@CynAq@passis@actuallyautistic This is what I notice too. With that granting of others subjective experience, comes, I think, the sharing of our experiences as a way to bridge that subjective gap. Allistic culture assumes that people are the same and therefore "You should…" is used to address others. I may be hypersensitive to this, but I notice it often and it feels aggressive. I feel there’s so almost none of that "pushing in" in autistic culture, at least with those I’ve communicated with.